You can call it a double standard. In fact, it is a double standard. But I will spell it out clearly for you:
When a woman writes an article about the history of vibrators, she is empowering women to understand their sexuality.
When a man writes an article about the history of vibrators, he is a pervert.
And that is the way it should be.
I couldn't find a good, hip indie song to express this idea, so I went with a classic.